i mean i think we're just gonna walk around and look at the flowers in the botanical garden or something i dunno oh god when do i tell him i have a cock fuck
Venus, we've totally probably gone on dates. Or something like it. If not, why are we not going on more of them. Nothing's stopping us.
[ Oh, huh, she's trans too. Okay. She can see how that would be even more terrifying. ]
Oh, yeah, that's tough. The garden idea sounds nice, though. Does he seem, uh, like not much of an asshole about social issues Maybe mention you're trans early on and see if he's still cool? But it all depends on what you're comfortable with.
Wait why should you share it now? I mean. If you really feel like you have to?? But I think as long as you have the conversation before he sucks your dick it's probably fine??? I mean. Do keep in mind that I've been in weird places lately but. I really don't see why your dick is relevant to seeing the flowers. (It IS cute though.)
Also have we?? I mean we've BASICALLY been on dates but I don't think we ever specified that. I probably wouldn't have even called us girlfriends without you acknowledging it first?? Like. We love each other and you're one of the two most important people in the world but that doesn't necessarily mean we're dating? You know? Kind of like that??
Basically what I'm getting at is that you should call it a date next time?????
[ Those words, at least the way Venus says them hurt more than Jupiter expects. She understands what she's getting at logically, sure, and doesn't disagree. But it sure feels like she's being told that her feelings are mistaken, and that she was reading too much into things, regardless of the fact that they love each other. It feels like this is somehow being put on her for getting silly ideas into her head and she thinks mainstream romance is fucking bullshit but maybe she'd like to think they are girlfriends who go on dates???
But Bridget doesn't need to see them argue. They can talk about it later. ]
I don't think you have to, for sure. I'm cis so I'll never completely understand the situation you're in, so don't take what I'm saying as me saying what to do It seems like it might be hard to get your hopes up for something, possibly, and get to that, and find out it's all fucked up. Like it would hurt pretty bad. So bringing it up early would also be an option. You don't even have to mention having a dick, you know, just "hey I'm trans, you have to be cool about that if we're going to hang out," you know?
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Oh shit?? Wait sorry that can wait. What's up. Are you okay or
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he said yes
now I'm freaking out a little
Bc I've never actually been on a date.
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But yeah that's scary. I get it.
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what do you do on a date?
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But uh
We just sort of drank and flirted and hung out??
Which I mean. I do THAT all the time.
So maybe that's not right either
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i dunno
oh god
when do i tell him i have a cock
fuck
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Or something like it.
If not, why are we not going on more of them.
Nothing's stopping us.
[ Oh, huh, she's trans too. Okay. She can see how that would be even more terrifying. ]
Oh, yeah, that's tough.
The garden idea sounds nice, though.
Does he seem, uh, like not much of an asshole about social issues
Maybe mention you're trans early on and see if he's still cool?
But it all depends on what you're comfortable with.
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you know?
if it gets serious
idk
i like him he's nice.
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You should get lots of dates Bridget.
I mean
if you want to
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I mean. If you really feel like you have to??
But I think as long as you have the conversation before he sucks your dick it's probably fine???
I mean. Do keep in mind that I've been in weird places lately but.
I really don't see why your dick is relevant to seeing the flowers.
(It IS cute though.)
Also have we?? I mean we've BASICALLY been on dates but I don't think we ever specified that.
I probably wouldn't have even called us girlfriends without you acknowledging it first?? Like. We love each other and you're one of the two most important people in the world
but that doesn't necessarily mean we're dating?
You know? Kind of like that??
Basically what I'm getting at is that you should call it a date next time?????
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But Bridget doesn't need to see them argue. They can talk about it later. ]
I don't think you have to, for sure.
I'm cis so I'll never completely understand the situation you're in, so don't take what I'm saying as me saying what to do
It seems like it might be hard to get your hopes up for something, possibly, and get to that, and find out it's all fucked up. Like it would hurt pretty bad.
So bringing it up early would also be an option. You don't even have to mention having a dick, you know, just "hey I'm trans, you have to be cool about that if we're going to hang out," you know?
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This is all good advice.
I'll have to think about it, I guess.